Is it safe to have sex while I'm pregnant?
Does sex feel different after pregnancy and why?
When is sex during pregnancy not safe?
Is oral sex safe?
What should couples do when the stomach grows?
Does sexual drive decrease during pregnancy?
Is it safe to have sex while I'm pregnant?
Yes, in a normal pregnancy. Sex and sexual intercourse are not harmful
during pregnancy. The fetus lies safely in the womb and occasional movement,
contact or orgasms won't cause it harm. During orgasm, the womb will
contract more than usual, but these aren't the same contractions as those
just before delivery. Providing there are no reasons to suspect that the
man has a genital infection such as herpes or Chlamydia, then there is no
increased risk of infection to the baby.
If you have been treated for premature labor, considered a high-risk
pregnancy, have occasional bleeding or bleeding after sex, have a history
of miscarriages, and leaking are concerns for continuing your sex life and
you should seek advice from a doctor.
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Does sex feel different after pregnancy and why?
Increased blood flow to the pelvic region causes increased sensitivity;
for some women it feels better, while others find it painful. This can
also cause abdominal cramps during or after intercourse. Breasts may
also become swollen and tender. Excess vaginal discharge can make sex
more pleasurable or cause irritation. If you notice a sudden change in the
amount of vaginal discharge or a foul, unusual odor, check with your doctor
because you might have a vaginal infection.
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When is sex during pregnancy not safe?
In certain circumstances a doctor or midwife might advise couples not
to have too much sex during pregnancy.
- Any bleeding during pregnancy or after having intercourse should always
be reported to a doctor. An examination of the cervix and possibly an
ultrasound scan will be suggested.
- If the bleeding is recurrent, it may be suggested that you have less
intercourse, but that does not mean that other types of sex are forbidden
during the remainder of the pregnancy.
- If the placenta (afterbirth) is lying over the cervix (a condition known
as placenta praevia) you may be advised to avoid intercourse altogether.
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Is oral sex safe?
Absolutely, providing neither partner carries a sexually transmitted
disease. It can offer an alternative to a couple who may not have
intercourse.
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What should couples do when the stomach grows?
During the first three months of pregnancy the fetus takes up so little
space in the womb that it can't be seen or felt. But once the stomach starts
to grow, sex can feel a little uncomfortable if the man is on top.
It is best to find other sexual positions - the woman astride the man,
side to side or from behind, for example. These will be more comfortable. By
experimenting, couples may find new positions that they will use after the
pregnancy as well.
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Does sexual drive decrease during pregnancy?
It is possible to make love during pregnancy, from the first day to the last
day, but the desire to make love can vary a great deal for both males and
females. Both partners have to be aware of this and of how the other is
feeling. Some people loose their libido because of concern for the baby's
safety, additional financial concerns, or apprehension about being a new
parent. But the change in sexual drive isn't always psychological and may be
hormonal. This is very normal and the two of you should talk it out.
Wouldn't it be sad if a woman feels she's fat while her lover finds her very
attractive? Her feelings are unfounded, and if she realized how the other
felt, it could bring a whole new element to the bedroom.
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